The smallest of their actions leads us to over-analyze every tiny move they make. We find ourselves pondering over and over again about their intentions and how they possibly feel about us. The thought of them not wanting us back is soul crushing, even if in some cases it is true. We deny and over-think and obsess. At first, it can feel like a fresh rush- suddenly you feel alive and hyped up. You become extremely happy. Knowing and seeing this person makes you feel blissful. But then you begin to obsess and your mental workings start going downhill.
Let’s try to deal with that, here are some tips that can really help you to handle the situation.
You are not the only one in this situation. It’s normal human behaviour sometimes we obsess over that person because we are very, very attached to them. We want to be with them, want to impress them, want to tell them all of these planned out, fine-tuned bits of witty dialogue that we’ve been tossing around in our brains for the past few days. We want to feel their presence again and again. That person is magical to us- a rarity, a unicorn that bleeds rainbow blood. We build them a comfortable home on a pedestal, even though we might deny it.
Give time to yourself:
Time can help you get over an infatuation. You need to explain yourself that the crush you have is temporary and you can definitely get over it! Avoid taking decision in a hurricane of thoughts… keep calm
Always take decision when you are on the cross roads:
Do not give oxygen to thoughts related to him\her:
Experiment and put yourself and the other one in various situation:
Life always provides you opportunity to improve yourself… just go for the basics and enjoy the game
Improve yourself , before your personality consolidate.