Men will always be men, they get bored easily. In order to keep them interested in your talks, you need to be more interesting, surprising and humorous.Keeping a guy interested through conversation can be pretty tough sometimes. With their attention drifting to the newest thing out there 24/7, you can face some pretty big obstacles. We have worked out on this problem for you and have enlisted 10 topics that are on the hit list of every men . So, take a look:
His interests and hobbies:
Men don’t find a lot of women’s interests to be all that… well, interesting—unless they’re also something they like. By bringing up and discussing his interests, you will show him that not only are you willing to learn more about him, you find his life interesting, as well.
Men don’t actually have a lot of time to talk about their interests; they don’t usually sit around with a group of guys and discuss these things—unless it’s a shared interest. So, when they have the opportunity and know they can go to you to talk about it, it will keep them coming back.
You might cringe at the thought of spending time discussing his latest golf outing with his work friends, but if it’s something that he finds important, make a point to discuss it. Ask how it went, what he learned, if he’s getting better, etc.
If you want to take it a step further, ask if you could join him in his new hobby. He’ll be both surprised and intrigued that you not only brought it up to talk about, but that you want to be included.
People spend about 70% of their day at work. Men are overly proud of their work, too. So ask him how his job is going. Make sure to talk about his new goals at work, any projects he’s got going on that he really likes, and whatever else you can. By showing you care about other aspects of his life that are important to him, you’ll keep him interested.
If there’s one word that can make a man perk up and pay extra close attention, it’s sex. Now, this can be a touchy subject for men, if you approach talking about sex like there’s something wrong. But when you’re reaching for a great conversation that’ll keep him around, talk about the bedroom!
Discuss things you really like, what you’d like to try, and even ask him if there’s anything he would be interested in doing. This is a great way to keep him interested, because it opens a gap that can sometimes burden a relationship, and shows him that you’re open to discussing these topics with him.
I’m pretty sure food is a universally loved thing by men. When you start babbling about it, he’s certain to keep his interest on you. Bonus points if you talk about making him food. Even more bonus points if you talk about making him food half-naked.
Discuss the similarities between both of you:
Show him how good you guys are together and he’ll be sure to stay interested. If you have shared interests, talk about them—and often! Make sure to discuss new things about your interest that he might not know about. It’s a great way to show him that you two make a great pair. If you are doing this, he won’t be looking anywhere else!
Talk about his passions, Goals:
Just straight up ask him what he’s passionate about and watch him talk on and on. Men really don’t talk about these things with their friends all that often, and he is probably just waiting to get it off his chest. If you’re someone he knows he can divulge these things to, he’ll keep coming around.
Ask him about his goals and future plans:
I think every guy out there has a specific goal of some kind, just sitting in the back of his mind. Ask him if he has any at the moment and talk to him about them. He’ll be grateful to be able to open up to you, and he might even find that you motivate him—something men will not want to lose.One thing that may surprise most of you out there is that men love when a woman talks about what she’s passionate about. When they can see our passion and how it drives us, they can picture that same passion applied elsewhere.Take kids, for example. If you show that you can be ridiculously passionate about something, your man will start imagining just how passionate and caring you may be to any future children that may be involved. Or maybe he would just love for you to be that passionate about him someday, too.
Stay away from the serious conversations unless they are important, of course and stick with light-hearted humor. If you know he finds certain things funny, show him! It might strike up a fun conversation that’ll make him crave more time with you.
Be surprising. Bring up a topic he knows a lot about and ask him to explain it to you. Talk about his favorite sports team and how they’re doing, or just find anything that will make him look at you in wonder.
Surprising men is a great way to keep them around, because they will just be sitting around, waiting to see what you’ll talk to them about next. Remember to always have a surprise tucked away, ready to pull out at a moment’s notice.
Play 20 questions—he goes first—and anything is fair game:
There are probably hundreds of questions he wants to ask you, but has never had the opportunity. Well, now you can give it to him on a silver platter!
If you’re looking for a conversation starter, tell him you want to play 20 questions with anything as fair game. You’ll not only keep him interested, but the two of you will get to know each other better and better, and he’ll probably find things out about you he didn’t even know—which may keep him around to find out more!